You Must Be Accommodating So that He’ll Think Your Easy Going and Fun…
But that doesn’t work because it actually trains him to think you’re willing to do whatever he wants. And what makes this so bad is that he’ll just assume all you care about is his needs, his happiness with nothing left for you.
Kind of like you’re his mother… doting on him… caring only about his needs… with your sole purpose focused on making sure he’s happy.
You’ve Been Told to Never Get Angry with a Man Because it’s Such a Turn Off….
But the truth is that never getting angry with a man actually makes him get bored with you. The reason is this: Men live by this motto –
“If you can’t handle me when I’m rude or disrespectful, then you’re too weak for me to ever trust you when I’m scared.”
And the Worst Thing You’ve Been Told:The More You Give to a Man the Deeper He’ll Love You.
I’m sorry to tell you but doing that will only lead to my deepest fear for you…
that he’ll take you for granted by:
- Only calling you when he’s in the mood.
- Having his desire for you go hot and cold, for no apparent reason.
- Expecting you to be positive and upbeat…all the time.
Sourced from Bob Grant
Welcome beauty, health, music and dance, into your life!
Open to the beauty of life, the beauty of YOU, the beauty in others and the world.
Beauty is woven into your divine nature. Natures’ bathed in beauty and love.
Beauty in it’s very nature is simple.
At the deepest level, we are all connected by the universal vibration, by enjoying a wide variety of
great music and dance you can uncover this connection.
Life can get stale and stagnant if you don’t give it room to breathe with occasional spontaneity.
Renew enthusiasm into your life!
Embrace the beauty of your community.
” I am because we are”. Ubuntu culture
They lived and died to give us a better platform to speak about our oppression (our Holocaust) as well as our victories. They are best honored by continuing the spirit of their mission: Orphan quotes; and an X on a cap is not how serious people honor their ancestors. Not being critical of their shortcomings is also not how a progressive people honor their ancestors. We must therefore build upon their legacy to bring about a new African future. Consciousness demands that we reflect on their contributions but studying them with these factors in mind.
What do you want?
What is it you really want? Do you know? Are you clearer in some areas than others? Is there an area of your life that feels foggy that it may help to get clearer on what your HEART truly desires?
One way to invite more of what you love into your life is to get clear about what you love, what brings you happiness and joy, whether it be in the area of relationships, career, fun, etc., and whether they are experiences of being, doing or having (being more at peace/centred/joyous/adventurous, doing more exercise/giving/laughing, having greater wealth/a new home/more holidays, etc).
When you are clear about what you want it is easier to put your focus towards that end, and direct your thoughts and imagination into the manifestation of those realities, as well as take practical steps towards them.
Get in touch with what your heart really wants, your deepest wishes, passions and joys.
Getting clear on what you want will also shift your orientation and focus away from what you don’t want.
Obstacles are what you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” ~Henry Ford
Have you been focusing on your past, on pain, negative situations, doubts, fears, and so on, rather than bright futures? I’m not suggesting denying certain thoughts and feelings (you may want to acknowledge them to process and release where necessary), but the message here is to shift your attention towards the positive and align to the bright futures to assist in drawing them into your reality now.
Shift your focus from fears and problems to solutions and desired outcomes.
It is sometimes possible that you have a split mind about what you want, where consciously you want one thing, yet unconsciously there may be a hidden agenda, resistances, unconscious motives or limiting beliefs that run counter to those outcomes. Becoming conscious of these can help, as what you recognize and acknowledge you can do something about, resolve, let go, integrate, change, move beyond, etc.
Are you allowing yourself to dream and get in touch with what would make your heart sing and bring utmost joy in all areas of your life?
Pick an area of your life you’re wanting to enhance, whether it’s social, romantic, career or health, and write down what it is you really want, what you wish to be experiencing, how you wish to be feeling, what you wish to be doing, being and having.
You can even discover some wants by looking at what you don’t like in your life and deciding what you would like instead “xyz” that is currently the case in your reality.
What do you really LOVE? What makes you come alive and lights up your soul? What are your gifts, talents, passions and joys?
After writing down what your wants, write down why that want is important to you. This can be revealing. Perhaps it’s more freedom that you’re seeking, and that’s why you want a change in your career, for example, or greater love, fulfilment, peace, expression, creativity, acknowledgement, etc.
You can, of course, turn your wants into goals. Either way, writing down your desires in itself asserts your wishes to the universe and clarifies them for you also. Get in touch with your deepest wishes, be intimate and open with yourself, and announce them in writing. This can help you unearth them and from there on, focus and work towards them.
You can get more specific with goals-setting, time-lines, action steps, etc., if this is something that resonates, but start by getting in touch with what your heart really desires so the universe can assist you more, and YOU can assist you more, in manifesting them. Doing so will give you greater clarity and direction so you can take more solid steps, and ignite momentum and enthusiasm.
written by Aine Belton
Trust is a generating energy and puts the power of your mind towards positive outcomes.
Not naivety or trusting where it’s inappropriate.
Here are some examples of the trust being referred too:
Trust in yourself.
Trust in the love the universe has for you.
Trust in the power of your heart’s desires and your intentions.
Trust in your love, goodness and capabilities.
Trust in your power as a creator.
Trust in the positive outcome of your goal.
Trust in the healing power of love.
Trust that you are on a co-creative journey, that there is a bigger picture, and that there is love, help and guidance available to you in every moment.
Trust that the universe wants you to have what you desire as much as you do.
Trust that you are loved more than you know, more than you will ever know!
Life doesn’t have to be a struggle. You can have what you desire with belief, intention, positive expectation, and a willingness to receive.
Trust brings with it a greater sense of ease, faith and confidence, and lessens your desire to control or have things be a certain way, allowing life to manifest in a way that most serves you.
If there is an area of your life you are fearful or doubtful around, lean into trust, get a sense of it, embrace it, let it embrace and carry you.
You deserve the best, ever and always, whether you realise that or not. The universe wants the best for you in every moment. You are the only one who can stand in your way.
Be kind and loving to yourself, and let the winds of trust take you to beautiful realities and desired outcomes.
Trust the turning of the tide. Have faith and hope in your heart. Hold bright visions of the future you desire to create, make positive choices for yourself and commit to those through action.
Release your dreams and visions into the world. Trust, believe, open to receive and expect their materialization in your world in the highest and best way for you!
written by Aine Belton